THE TRUTH BEHIND DISEMPOWERED RELATIONSHIPS
Are you in a personal relationship right now? What is your way of determining its value and magnitude? I would believe that the mind is the primary determining factor for personal relationships. Options that offer ways in framing the importance of personal relationships in your life are always available and some might be more empowering than others. You will find it difficult to connect with others if you look at relationships in one angle alone. Changing your mindset on the other hand will make you more attractive and appealing to other individuals without any difficulty.
HOW THE MIND WORKS IN DISEMPOWERED RELATIONSHIPS
In every relationship, there are objectives that have to be put into consideration. In this type of mind-setting, other individuals are distinct beings that are separate entities that we interact with through body language, in words and through the voice.
The following are facets of the framework of objective relationships:
- DISCONNECTION / SEPARATION: Every individual possesses his or her own set of thoughts that are different from yours
- REJECTION ANXIETY: No relationship is stable and calm, every relationship has its fair share of imprecision and risks.
- POSSIBLE RESISTANCE: Initiating a conversation with a total stranger is a very risky approach that takes a lot of courage.
- TRUST DOES NOT HAPPEN OVERNIGHT: Communication, trust and familiarization are the main ingredients for satisfying relationships. But these do not happen overnight. It takes time for one to achieve each and everyone.
- IT TAKES TIME TO BOND: Bonding happens when you are already comfortable being with a certain person. Bonding never happens between two distant people who do not know each other. Mutual relationships are less certain if you try to bond with somebody who is a total stranger.
- ATTACHMENT RISKS: Abusive and destructive relationships are not what a person seeking for love desires. But often times, their characteristics do not manifest immediately in the beginning during the time when you are trying to build your investment such as time and energy.
This type of framework is actually something we call as “common sense”. Most of us know how to identify with it the only problem is, we all have unique mindsets that are not always “blind-proof” form any signs of adversity that might show in the surface early on. That is the reason why this mind-setting is quite a disempowering one because it functions rather fairly. Most have claimed that they only got average results while practicing this framework. Yes, it does allow you to enjoy relationships that are mostly with friends, seldom with close, intimate relationships with a particular someone you find interesting. It is never expected of you to talk about things that matter much to you such as your purpose or mission in life, for those kinds of thoughts were only “okay” for persons involved and attached with their spiritual self. This then is the result of a disempowered relationship. Because you have blocked so much of everything that is involved with finding the right mate, you are always in the mode of keeping it “safe”. But do you know that testing the unsure waters bring surprises that we might actually find pleasing for us?