THE CHILD IN YOU
Do you know that you have an inner child? Do you know that your inner child is a part or a fragment of your real being, your soul? This is the reason why it is so very important that we reconnect with it. Because we will not be a complete whole if our inner child is missing.
Until we reach the age of six, the dominant part of us that consciously evolves from the womb until we are brought into this world is the inner child. A child’s emotional patterns and experiences in life are honed during this fragile time. All behavioural patterns whether good or bad, are developed during this stage in a person’s life. Characteristics are laid down and carried throughout life.
Our inner child is our innocent side, our angelic side, the person who we came into this world as. So what then is the purpose of reconnection? It don’t necessarily have to reconnect with it, all you might need to is just recognize its presence in you and learn how to reinforce your bond with it.
But when a connection has been destroyed or severed, the purpose of reconnection is the only solution because you have lost this portion of your soul. There might have been serious emotional, physical, mental, or spiritual trauma in your life which occurred during the first six years which has frightened this inner child. Your goal is to bring him or her back.
According to advocates, when an inner child flees from your being, he or she goes to Never, Never Land, just like what happened to Peter Pan’s inner child which is in part very true. Others may choose not to recognize it as such, but the inner child does go to another plane of existence that is far away from the source of trauma. The inner child has the capacity to flee because as we have said, he or she is only a portion or a fragment of our soul, not the physical being. You need to find a way to bring this inner child back in you, and the only way to do so would be to release or heal your own personal issues, the source why the inner child left you in the first place.
Many encounters with people who are doing this kind of reconnecting have been accounted to and they have been heard saying that it is really true that there is a part in them that is not there, missing and they have no idea how to resolved it or even find it. Some, who may have experienced serious trauma such as rape, physical abuse or violence during the first six years, have chosen never to reconnect with the inner child because it is too painful for them to bear. How do you describe fun? How do you experience it? I am asking you this because there are people who do not know what it is or how to enjoy it. Others do not even know how to play, how to think straight or how to come up with their own unique concept. Some people also may not be emotionally attached projecting poor range of emotions.
The cellular memory holds your emotional energies that consist of your past traumas, issues and painful experiences. It continuously grows over the years if not resolved and dealt with. Do you know that cramped up emotions can manifest in diseases and other types of physical illness if not resolved? Begin your healing process where the issue started. If it started or began in your childhood, then start the healing process there. Strengthen your connection with your inner child in a fresh way. Rid yourself of negative emotions and energies to create a safer more welcoming haven for the inner child. As you go about rituals of cleansing and healing, your personal and spiritual side will grow and strengthen. Happiness will then set in and you will know and understand the true essence of fun through this reconnection.